Many overweight people have a preconceived idea that their bodies are not compatible with having sex. Luckily, this isn’t the case. With open communication and trust, any couple can find positions that make them happy.
For example, plain old missionary can be a bit of challenge for fat girls because of the extra padding around the vagina. To combat this, try modifying the position with pillows.
Seated Position
Having sex with a fat girl doesn’t have to be difficult. Corissa Enneking, who writes the blog Fat Girl Flow, says it’s important for plus size couples to try a variety of positions and find what works best for them. Getting comfortable with each other, having open communication and using a lot of lubrication can help.
One sex position that works well for both partners is the seated position. This is ideal if her belly fat gets in the way of sex because it helps to deepen penetration and can help hit the G-spot. To use this position have her lie down and spread her legs out on the bed, letting you scoot your knees up against her thighs. You can then enter her and caress and stimulate her clitoris for extra pleasure.
Another good option is the Doggy style position. In this position you can have her lie on her back and crouch down in the foetal pose (similar to child’s pose in yoga). From here she can stick her legs out straight and expose her buttocks, and you can enter her by kneeling between them. This position is also a great way for her to self-stimulate and it makes her feel horny and powerful, which can be a big boost for confidence. You should use pillows to provide support and make the position more comfortable for both of you.
Cowgirl Position
Whether you’re a plus size man or woman, this classic position is a surefire way to have sexy fun with your partner. Just make sure to use a pillow or two for support so you can stay in the position longer.
Just like the traditional cowgirl position, this variation on the classic involves straddling your partner. However, instead of facing them, you turn your back to them and let their thighs rest against each other as you lick and bite at them. You can even lick them up to their nipples! Using the reverse cowgirl position also allows you to easily self-stimulate your clitoris, since your mouth is closer to it.
Many people who are overweight get self-conscious about their bodies during sex, especially when they’re with a romantic partner. They worry that their belly rolls or cellulite will get in the way, which can lead to a lack of intimacy. Fortunately, this doesn’t have to be the case. In fact, there are a number of enjoyable sex positions that work for all sizes. Here are three standard sexual positions that can be modified to be fat-girl friendly.
Hind-Legged Doggy Position
One of the biggest reasons many plus-size women turn down sex with slimmer men is that they have this preconceived idea that their divergent bodies will not work well together. This is a big mistake and a massively harmful stereotype that needs to end ASAP.
The hind-legged dog position is a fat girl-friendly version of the standard missionary pose that is incredibly easy to learn and will provide tons of pleasure for both partners. Essentially, the man enters from behind and kneels on the bed with his back to her, and then she puts her legs over his shoulders. This allows him to use her legs for leverage and torque, which will lead to orgasms that are to die for, and it also provides front wall stimulation, which ups the chances he’ll hit that sweet g-spot. If you want to up the comfort level of this position, using a doggy-style strap is definitely a good idea.
Of course, if you’re not comfortable with this position, that’s okay; just make sure to communicate openly with your partner and try out other positions until you find the ones that you like best. All it takes is a little experimentation and the right partner. With proper communication and an open mind, you’ll be able to achieve the fulfilling sex life that you deserve.
Sitting Position
If you’re not a fan of the cowgirl or reverse cowgirl position, you can also have sex with your fat girlfriend in a sitting position. This sex position allows for deep penetration and hits the G-spot, and it’s great for women who have a lot of belly fat that can get in the way.
The bottom partner can straddle over her pelvis to enter in this sex position and then lift their leg so it’s curled around them. Then, they can rock the leg up and down in a circular motion for increased stimulation. This is a great position for fat girls because it lets them feel the movement and friction of their partners, which can lead to even more orgasms.
Another way to spice up this sex position is for the receiver to place a pillow in their lap and scoot it up so that they can sit on top of it. This will give them a little more control over their positioning and help keep the pillow from moving, which can distract the partner on top.
Some people think that overweight peeps can’t do on-top positions because they won’t be able to support their weight on their partners. However, this is untrue, and anyone can do on-top positions as long as they know what to do and have the right equipment. Having a few pillows or sex wedges nearby can be helpful to help make it easier for the overweight partner, and it’s always good to have some good-quality water-based lubricant on hand, too.
